''jealousy'' can you deal with it?

If you or someone you love is suffering from jealousy, take it seriously. Jealousy in a relationship can DESTROY that relationship even if it is nearly perfect in every other way. That's the harm of Jealousy, that's why it is one of the Seven Deadly Sins. Jealousy is about seeing a normal situation and fearing it because of imaginary potential harm. So there is no way to "fix" the problem other than addressing the actual Jealousy.

this is right and im so jealous.all i know is im just inlove and care a lot thats why i feel this damn 'jealousy'..i guess its normal to someone whose inlove.i doubt if theres someone in this world whose inlove and never feel this ''jealousy''not unless you dont care or love.
and i believe that this is all depends on bothsides for nobody gets jealous and hurt.. some says its insecurities,but i doubt it.. i dont have that anyway.lol.

maybe the problem with it is,if you are in relationship,do what is best for both,respect and know your limitation. yes limitation,coz if you're in relationship,if you care about it you are limited to do certain things that can possibly destroy your relationship. be aware and understand. and for sure,if your love one cross behind the limitation ,probably you will get hurt and that is ''JEALOUSY''

Bathing Suit Tips for Body Flattering Swimwear for Women and Teen Girls

Every year, it happens. Bathing suit weather arrives, and with it, sales on swimwear (or for some, suntan wear.) The good news is, the variety has never been greater. The bad news, the variety and decisions have never been greater.
Decisions, decisions. Now it seems there is a bathing suit for every type of woman or situation as there are mastectomy suits, maternity swimsuits, plus-size swimwear, suits for tall or petite women. And then the real decisions start.
Do I want a one piece, two piece bathing suit, bikini, or tankini. Should it be slimming, help camouflage (you know) with an underwire, or be one of those what they call miracle suits. Should I be bold and go with something hot, sheer, sexy, exotic as in something skimpy like a thong or brazilian g string. Do I splurge and look for a brand name designer like Tommy Hilfiger, Victoria Secret, Anne cole, or sporty with Nike or Lands End. Or do I do as I always do and look on the discount rack or wait for my bathing suit pick to go on sale. And lets not forget color, black, white, floral or florescent. Decisions decisions. Decisions, decisions. Now it seems there is a bathing suit for every type of woman or situation as there are mastectomy suits, maternity swimsuits, plus-size swimwear, suits for tall or petite women. And then the real decisions start.
Do I want a one piece, two piece bathing suit, bikini, or tankini. Should it be slimming, help camouflage (you know) with an underwire, or be one of those what they call miracle suits. Should I be bold and go with something hot, sheer, sexy, exotic as in something skimpy like a thong or brazilian g string. Do I splurge and look for a brand name designer like Tommy Hilfiger, Victoria Secret, Anne cole, or sporty with Nike or Lands End. Or do I do as I always do and look on the discount rack or wait for my bathing suit pick to go on sale. And lets not forget color, black, white, floral or florescent. Decisions decisions.

What womens swimsuit fashion is best and most flattering for your body typeApple shaped body frames have broader shoulders and smaller hips. Two-piece bikinis or tankinis with a solid color top and a patterned bottom will give you a more balance appearance.

Pear shaped body types have larger hips and smaller shoulders with a waist that is larger than the shoulders. One-piece bathing suits with tummy control or other design feature that create the illusion of a waist line will be the most flattering.

Small Bust - To enhance a smaller bust try a halter bikini top that has a seam just under the bust line or a lightly padded or line top. Swim wear with texture can also help detract attention away from your bust line if you feel self-conscious.

Fuller Bottom - Skirted swim suits are back in style and can be found in many different patterns and styles. The skirt flatters a fuller bottomed body type and will give you a more balance look. You may also want to try on a few boy short styles as well. Both of these options offer a little more coverage on the bottom.

Slender, athletic bodies have shoulders, waist and hips that are the similar in width. One-piece or two-piece suits with detailing around the waist will help create a more hourglass shape. Try a wrap style top or a belted bathing suit bottom to create more waist definition.

Hourglass figures have balance shoulders and hips with a smaller waist. If this is you, you're lucky because just about any classic styled bathing suit should flatter your figure.

i got this award from rechie,thank you so much for sharing this award with me..

The rules are...

1. Make a list of what you want on your birthday...

2. The list should be 15 numbers

3. Post the image of this award in your posting

4. Give it to 10 friends of yours.

MY WISHES FOR MY BIRTHDAY (NOV.03,1979)

1. good health
2. peace of mind
3. happiness together with my boyfriend and son
4. good health for my son
5. good health for my parents
6. good health for my boyfriend
7. happiness for everybody
8. more love to share
9. more patience
10. a love and happiness
11. peaceful living
12. to become a better person
13. to love and be loved forever with the person i love so much
14. world peace
15. God be with us with the relationship i have now..i wish God shower us blessings and guidance..

homeless cat

her name is kitty whitey,actually shes not our pet,shes a street cat,craving for food all the time.making a mess by looking food from our garbage can,i freaked out every morning seeing those mess..i kept bugging her with a broom and yelled at her..but still she kept coming and rooming around our house,till i found out that my boyfriend was feeding her.lol,so i started to like her,she is harmless and cute..lol.and i made up a name for her ''kitty whitey''

coconut juice

Coconut is a tropical fruit that is rich in protein. The meat of the coconut is very good in destroying intestinal parasites, that we get from eating infected food. Coconut water is good for kidney and urinary bladder problems.

last december me and my boyfriend went to bohol to visit the one of the famous tourist spots here in philippines that are the called chocolate hills,it was my first time and im very glad that i can see from my eye the spot that i just only see from the school book.. i was very amazed and its like i cant believe its really there..The Chocolate Hills is an unusual geological formation in bohol.It is composed of around 1,268 perfectly cone-shaped hills of about the same size, they are covered in green grass that turns brown during the dry season, hence the name..its funny but im craving for chocolates when i see the view of chocolate hills...lol

next picture is the Bohol Tarsiers measure to 4-5 inches and is considered as the world’s smallest primate. Its size is not longer than a man’s hand,i cant barely touch it coz its like a rat,im scared to hold it nor even touch it..its tail longer than its body, it has large brown eyes, long finger-like claws and It has brown-gray fur ''maybe'' soft as the stuff toys but still i dont like it lol..

bohol is far from my place but when u reached there youl never regret it.. its all worth it..

he change a lot...

we had fight before... and the worst thing i cud never forget ,when he throw bad words to me...
* your a bitch
* i fed you
* get lost
* leave me alone
* our relationship is over

now were okey,but i still cant forget those words? i was very hurt... untill now ... i love him but i still feel bad... i think he dont love me anymore.... he doesnt care how and what i feel..hes not the man i love before... he change alot...God help me hold on...